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May 2023 – Thailand
It’s hot, humid, sticky and highly uncomfortable. In a few days it slowly grows on you, so you end up wondering what’s next. Let the Thailand adventure begin!
At least this is what i wrote in my journal after day 3 of staying in Bangkok. 🙂
It took a long time for us to visit South-East Asia, but here we are. After covering most of Europe, spending a sabbatical in South America, moving to the Netherlands and just settling in and enjoying the slow pace of life over the last years, the clock was ticking for a new adventure.
Here i’ve put together all the useful tips for planning this trip. We had no idea what to expect in terms of costs, what’s worth trying in a couple of days, what are the popular destinations, let alone what would shock us the most. 🙂 So if you’re a first time visitor, i hope this will come in handy for your first holiday in Thailand.

ARRIVAL
I’m counting hour by hour till my 12-hours flight lands. Try to sleep every now and then in between music and movies, but no luck. I look around to check what else i can do. The other travellers, mostly solo backpackers or golden-agers, are either chatting to each other, or landed in dreamland already. More music for me, i guess.
We touch ground on what seems to be early morning in Bangkok. Go through passport control, visa check and then rush to buy a local SIM card. Phew, back online. At the end of all this, George is waiting for me with a huge smile. He’s already been here with work for 2 weeks. When we finally go outside the airport towards the taxi area, i get why he was smiling: he knew what was coming. 🙂 I nearly pass out from the scorching heat. I mean, after going through jungle in Brazil, i thought we would be ready for anything, but this is another level. No joke, it is HOT! If Bangkok is not the hottest city in the world, it has to be in top 5.
And this is how our Thai adventure begins.

WHAT TO VISIT BY DAY
Temples
- Grand Palace
- Wat Pho
- Wat Arun
The last official count says there are over 40000 temples in Thailand. Easy to imagine that with just a regular walk you will bump into them everywhere. Looking behind the architectural aspect, they reflect much more. It feels like Buddhism is deeply intertwined with the Thai culture in such a harmonious and natural way, that is part of everyday life. Some of the most majestic temples of Bangkok are, besides popular touristic destinations, also places of worship.
If you’re only for 1-2 days in Bangkok, make sure you put the Grand Palace (containing The Emerald Buddha), Wat Pho and Wat Arun on the ‘do not miss’ list.







Museums
- National museum Bangkok
- Jim Thompson house
- Muangboran the Ancient City
If you want to dive deeper into Thailand’s history, there are plenty of options. From a tour of the national museum, to learning the history of silk trade, to exploring the world’s largest open air museum, you cannot get bored in Bangkok.





Markets
- Floating market (Damnoen Saduak, Amphawa)
- Railway market (Maeklong)
- Weekend markets (Chatuchak)
- China Town
A Thai market is a sight to behold. In China Town you will find anything that crosses your mind, while at night the place transforms into a food paradise.
Depending on whether you enjoy crowds or not, you will either be fascinated or you won’t know how to get out of there faster. 🙂



Other activities
- Shopping malls
- Thai massage
As we found out pretty quickly, shopping malls are the easiest (air conditioned) escape to hide when the sun hits in the afternoon.
Siam Paragon is the biggest in Bangkok, offering high end shopping, fancy car showrooms, food courts, the Sea Life Ocean World, a Cineplex and Madame Tussauds Bangkok, all under one roof. There are many other malls all over the place. We spent half a day in Iconsiam, but could have easily spent the whole day in there. Plus, the night view over Chao Phraya River is a great way to close an exhausting round of shopping.
End the day with a relaxing treat. It is said nothing compares with a Thai massage, and for a good reason.






WHAT TO VISIT BY NIGHT
- Rooftop bars
- Rooftop pools
As we found out a bit later, the best way to completely escape the heat is to hit the streets at night. Well, that took a while to figure out, almost our entire holiday. 🙂 But we got there in the end.
Our stay in Bangkok ended at Above Eleven, with a breathtaking view from the 33rd floor terrace of the Fraser Suites Sukhumvit hotel.
Here’s a list with the best rooftop bars in Bangkok. We’re definitely starting with the fun part next time.



POPULAR DAY TRIPS OUTSIDE BANGKOK
- Ayutthaya
- Pattaya
If there is a day trip from Bangkok that you’ll find recommended everywhere, this is Ayutthaya, a historic park filled with ancient temples and ruins dating back to 14th century.
In case you remain in Bangkok, Pattaya is the most popular day trip for the beach and vibrant nightlife (it must be called Sin City for a reason).


POPULAR DESTINATIONS TO FLY
- Chiang Mai
- Chiang Rai
- Phuket
- Krabi
If you want to see something else away from the buzzing Bangkok, you’ll have to take a plane. Internal flights are incredibly cheap! I felt like i want to go everywhere when checking those prices.
The most popular destinations are: Chiang Mai as the digital nomads favorite, Chiang Rai for the laid-back atmosphere and beautiful temples, Phuket or Krabi for exotic beaches.



Phuket essentials
We chose Phuket to spend half of our holiday. At the first contact, it feels overly touristic, loud, flashy. Same as with Bangkok, you get used to it. Turns out, we found here the best non-Asian food in the entire trip. And the greatest surprise comes at nightfall: sunsets are out of this world!
Popular beaches: Patong beach (the main one in Patong), Freedom beach (harder to reach but more spectacular)
Day trips to: Phi Phi islands, Similan islands, James Bond island







WHERE TO STAY
- Ayathorn – Bangkok
- Nipa Resort Patong beach – Phuket
Because accommodation is SO affordable compared to Europe, we looked for 4-stars hotels for both Bangkok and Phuket. Guess what, the total cost was still less than for a medium ranged hotel that we would normally choose elsewhere.

BEST TIME TO VISIT THAILAND
Let me repeat: we didn’t know what extreme heat is, until landing in Bangkok in May.
Lesson learned: the best time to travel to Thailand is the cool and dry season, between November and March, when temperatures are only ~30 °C. If you cannot stand scorching heat, avoid April-May. At 40 degrees during the day (with a real feel of 50+), and 30 degrees at night, we eventually started going out only at night.
The rainy season is between June and October. However, the worst time in terms of climate means you’ll be able to enjoy less crowded beaches and more affordable accommodation. Every choice comes with a price, right?

BUDGET
- Airplane tickets 2×1000=2000 EUR
- Accommodation 700 EUR
- Food 250 EUR
- Transport (taxi, tuk-tuk, boat) 150 EUR
- Entertainment 120 EUR
- SIM cards 2×15=30 EUR/valid 1 month
*for 10 nights/2 pers.

TIPS
- Passport – must be valid for at least 6 months upon return
- Apply for visa – depending on citizenship (on arrival or online)
- Take travel insurance
- Install Maps.me – download offline maps
- Install Grab taxi – similar to Uber, will be super handy in Bangkok
- Buy Local SIM card from airport on arrival
- Always have LOTS of sunscreen and water with you
- Cash – except hotels and some museums, everything else requires cash and almost everything is negociable; make sure you have your Baht stash with you at all times (1 EUR is ~38 Baht)
- Taxis – always ask how much is the ride when you start the trip; typically a ride from Suvarnabhumi airport to Bangkok center is 500-600 Baht, while from Phuket airport to Patong goes up to 700-800 Baht
- Genders – Thailand and especially Bangkok is seen as one of the most accepting places for different orientation preferences, often being named the home of transgenders (so called Kathoey or ladyboy); so if you find yourself in a bar or club looking for the correct toilet door, keep in mind there might be more than 2 signs to choose from.

DEPARTURE
We’re heading to the airport with the refreshing final picture in mind, going home. Needless to say that one of us is recovering from a bad flu, while the other starts being feverish on the flight! But there are 15 pleasant degrees in the Netherlands as we land, which is all we need right now.
About how we recovered after Thailand, maybe in another story. 🙂

Stay safe!

A really helpful guide – we are visiting in November so this gave me lots of ideas 🙂
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Oh perfect timing! then you will definitely have better weather than us 🤣 happy planning and enjoy the trip!
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What a comprehensive and insightful guide on planning a first trip to Thailand! The tips provided, from budgeting to popular destinations, offer a fantastic roadmap for anyone considering this adventure. The emphasis on cultural respect and local etiquette is particularly valuable, ensuring travelers have a meaningful and respectful experience. I appreciate the inclusion of budgeting tips, as they provide a realistic perspective for planning. The recommendations for popular destinations cater to diverse interests, making it easy for readers to tailor their itinerary. Overall, a must-read for anyone gearing up for their first Thai adventure!
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Hi Brian, thank you so much! We did tons of research before heading to Thailand, but also a lot of friends and colleagues helped with advice and recommendations along the way. So putting it all together in one piece seemed like the right way to give back what we learned to the travel community. Your feedback made my day today. 🙂 Cheers!
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